The weekend is already here ladies,
wow! It’s been such an eventful week; I can’t
wait to let my hair down. I plan to have a time of my life. I hope you also
have a lot lined up for yourselves too?
So my ladies, amongst all the
things you have set for the weekend, am particularly curious about that new
date of yours.
Oh yeah! I have got friends who are fascinated
by hunky fresh dudes, some love guys with style and others just want a guy who
can take care of them. I know someone who makes every effort to date the ‘hottest
guy on the block’. Now think about it, what’s your own spec?
My girls, we've been too long fantasizing over guys who are handsome, well groomed, show stoppers, hot, all
that, e.t.c. We have set standards on
the class and specie of guys who can come as close as talking to us.
Can I burst someone’s bubble here? You’ve never gotten that kind of guy because
you do not even stand a place; I’ll tell you how. Take a look.
Which of the two caught your attention positively? You be the judge. In mingling and conversing with gentlemen, I realised
many of them also have their standards (like way up there). So while we are busy wishing to have the good
guys and also envying the chics who have got’em, I am here to tell you what you
have heard before and may need to hear again. Since we have set high standards
for our men, we shouldn’t expect different from them.
GETTING THAT GUY
1. BE VIRTUOS Some of
us have very smelly and irritating attitudes, it’s highly repulsive. Let’s make ourselves kind, patient, calm and
real. No guy really likes a girl who’s uncontrollable. Just decide to imbibe
more virtues than vices in your life, with time your virtues will naturally
cause the law of attraction to work for you.
2. DEMEANOUR
– you should ooze of confidence (not pride). When you carry yourself gracefully, it gives
you presence. You have to comport yourself in a befitting manner all the time. A chic that is sure of who she is, carries herself
well. You can roll with anyone (after
all, all humans are equal). I have seen men and women without the looks, fame
or money who are able to make strong connections with people of repute; it’s
simply carriage.
3. BE KNOWLEDGEABLE - Ladies
must make efforts to be as vast as possible, it’s a powerful tool. Many years ago, I met a man in a social
gathering. Somehow, we started a conversation and interestingly we got into a
subject matter that happened to be my interest at that time. We flowed to the
point that the guy wanted me to go with all our other friends to the next
location, because I had already said I wasn’t going with them. What am I saying
here? I was not the prettiest or hottest
girl there. As a matter of fact I was the worst dressed that day. The guy found
an intellectual partner. More than how well you carry yourself, a real man
wants substance to proceed from your mouth (not wish washy talks).
4. SPICE UP YOUR APPEARANCE – For some
of us, we need to replace that old blue jeans, change that old hairstyle,
discard that ‘knock-about-slippers’ or buy a good perfume. We have to look the part from top to toe. My friend, a style consultant and CEO of Winston
& David would say, “yes, don’t judge
a person by his appearance, but what’s wrong if your appearance speaks for you?”
Take good care of yourself; look and smell nice.
Have a stress free weekend ladies
and very importantly, get that guy.
awesome
ReplyDeleteI am loving your blog by the minute
the younger girls these days seem to pay more attention on their looks and ending up looking like barbie dolls , dumb blondes
some cannot even speak good english enough to carry a conversation
Girls should also attain to be spiritual and meek
a meek and well-groomed woman will speak more to a man that a crass, uncultured barbie-looking half-nude girl.